What if you are dating someone you are on the edge about? Like... they aren't your usual type or you aren't 100% attracted to them, but they treat you REALLY well & consistently go above and beyond for you all the time. Would you give them a chance to see if love grows or would you just nip it in the bud and tell them it's just not going to work out?
It's interesting... where my family comes from, we believe in arranaged marriages (though not so much anymore). They say arranged marriages work bc who loves you more and wants what is best for you than your parents? Knowing that, why WOULDN'T you trust your parents to choose the best mate for you as possible? In arranged marriages, it's the two of you against the world; you get to know each other, face life events and grow closer together. In love marriages, the love fades as the years pass and the day to day stress can drive us apart. Thoughts?
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